{"id":238,"date":"2024-04-22T07:25:53","date_gmt":"2024-04-22T07:25:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/myselfsabotagecoaching.com\/?page_id=238"},"modified":"2025-10-17T01:51:27","modified_gmt":"2025-10-17T01:51:27","slug":"home","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/myselfsabotagecoaching.com\/","title":{"rendered":"Home"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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\n\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tBook your Free 45 Minute Gameplan Session with Matt<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t
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I went through a separation from my wife 3 years ago, it became messy with authorities involved which created a lot of confusion at the time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Over the last 3 years I have worked very hard on improving my strength in 5 key areas. My health and physical presentation to the world daily has been my greatest achievement. My mental clarity and focus has opened up so much more information about the way we behave.<\/span><\/p>\n

Many believe our behavior is organic, but our behavior is produced by our environment. In order to make changes necessary to rebuild or restructure our intimate relationships, we must first learn what effects our behavior, and how we can change it for the better.<\/span><\/p>\n

Beliefs adopted in childhood play a big role in our adult behaviors, but there are many reasons why our childhood coping mechinisms are playing out as adults. If we continue to protect the wound that our woman is exposing two things happen<\/p>\n

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The Blunt Truth About Why Women Walk Away From Good, Hardworking, Honest Men\u2014And How You Can Avoid It<\/h4>

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Learn why she walked away and left you blindsided, heartbroken and shattered!<\/h4>

Learn this truth fast so you can heal and gain back your masculinity and strength fast!<\/p><\/div><\/div>

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Stop Overthinking and Destroy That Crushing Feeling of Rejection\u2014Fast!<\/h4>

We\u2019ve used these tips and tricks to accelerate the results for our clients so they can take control of their thoughts, emotions and self worth much faster \u2013 now YOU can do the same!<\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t\t\t

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You can shift your focus in 3 simple ways to leave the feeling of rejection and overthinking behind you.<\/h4>

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How MEN F*#K it up When Trying to Move On, Win Her Back, or Attract Anyone Else\u2014Avoid These Desperate Mistakes at All Costs<\/h4>

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Overcoming Relationship Self-Sabotage Book your Free 45 Minute Gameplan Session with Matt About Matt I went through a separation from my wife 3 years ago, it became messy with authorities involved which created a lot of confusion at the time. Over the last 3 years I have worked very hard on improving my strength in 5 key areas. My health and physical presentation to the world daily has been my greatest achievement. My mental clarity and focus has opened up so much more information about the way we behave. Many believe our behavior is organic, but our behavior is produced by our environment. In order to make changes necessary to rebuild or restructure our intimate relationships, we must first learn what effects our behavior, and how we can change it for the better. Beliefs adopted in childhood play a big role in our adult behaviors, but there are many reasons why our childhood coping mechinisms are playing out as adults. If we continue to protect the wound that our woman is exposing two things happen 1. She loses attraction and will eventually find attraction elsewhere 2. You stay in this repetitive cycle never to discover what is causing your dysfunctional behavior that she sees, and you don’t. What is Self – Sabotage? More Information Here’s A Peek At The Mastery You Are About To Unlock Harsh Truth The Blunt Truth About Why Women Walk Away From Good, Hardworking, Honest Men\u2014And How You Can Avoid It We\u2019ve revealed what\u2019s REALLY happening inside the mind of divorced woman and why it seems so much harder to find real love when the relationship ends She’s Not That Complicated Learn why she walked away and left you blindsided, heartbroken and shattered! Learn this truth fast so you can heal and gain back your masculinity and strength fast! \u00a0 Shift Your Focus Stop Overthinking and Destroy That Crushing Feeling of Rejection\u2014Fast! We\u2019ve used these tips and tricks to accelerate the results for our clients so they can take control of their thoughts, emotions and self worth much faster \u2013 now YOU can do the same! Powerful Process You can shift your focus in 3 simple ways to leave the feeling of rejection and overthinking behind you. This is fast and effective, all your past and present fears vanish when you do these 3 things. \u00a0\u00a0 Flip The Script How MEN F*#K it up When Trying to Move On, Win Her Back, or Attract Anyone Else\u2014Avoid These Desperate Mistakes at All Costs Please, never EVER do this when going through separation unless you want to stay heartbroken for MONTHS longer than you need to Gain Back Your Masculinity Desperate needy behavior will only push her further away and make you feel even more pain! We help guys like you master post separation behavior and gain bullet proof confidence back fast.\u00a0 CLAIM YOUR FREE GAMEPLAN SESSION NOW! Email: matt@emotionalrestorationproject.com Visit my Skool Platform for more on how men take their true power back<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"ocean_post_layout":"","ocean_both_sidebars_style":"","ocean_both_sidebars_content_width":0,"ocean_both_sidebars_sidebars_width":0,"ocean_sidebar":"","ocean_second_sidebar":"","ocean_disable_margins":"enable","ocean_add_body_class":"","ocean_shortcode_before_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_after_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_before_header":"","ocean_shortcode_after_header":"","ocean_has_shortcode":"","ocean_shortcode_after_title":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_bottom":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_bottom":"","ocean_display_top_bar":"default","ocean_display_header":"default","ocean_header_style":"","ocean_center_header_left_menu":"","ocean_custom_header_template":"","ocean_custom_logo":0,"ocean_custom_retina_logo":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_height":0,"ocean_header_custom_menu":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_family":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_subset":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_size":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_unit":"px","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_line_height":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_unit":"","ocean_menu_typo_spacing":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_unit":"","ocean_menu_link_color":"","ocean_menu_link_color_hover":"","ocean_menu_link_color_active":"","ocean_menu_link_background":"","ocean_menu_link_hover_background":"","ocean_menu_link_active_background":"","ocean_menu_social_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_links_color":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_color":"","ocean_disable_title":"default","ocean_disable_heading":"default","ocean_post_title":"","ocean_post_subheading":"","ocean_post_title_style":"","ocean_post_title_background_color":"","ocean_post_title_background":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_image_position":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_attachment":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_repeat":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_size":"","ocean_post_title_height":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay":0.5,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay_color":"","ocean_disable_breadcrumbs":"default","ocean_breadcrumbs_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_separator_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_hover_color":"","ocean_display_footer_widgets":"default","ocean_display_footer_bottom":"default","ocean_custom_footer_template":"","footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-238","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/myselfsabotagecoaching.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/238","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/myselfsabotagecoaching.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/myselfsabotagecoaching.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/myselfsabotagecoaching.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/myselfsabotagecoaching.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=238"}],"version-history":[{"count":199,"href":"https:\/\/myselfsabotagecoaching.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/238\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1177,"href":"https:\/\/myselfsabotagecoaching.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/238\/revisions\/1177"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/myselfsabotagecoaching.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=238"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}